As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust....again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will lookgfforward to every day... You really need to know that....There is a lifestyle of marriage in the Lord that gives life and purpose to being married and can really be enjoyed. I am looking for that quality of marriage are you?